William Penn Lecture
1942
The Practice of
The Love of God
Delivered at
Arch Street Meeting House
Philadelphia
by
Kenneth Boulding
God Is Love
How do you respond to these three words?
Perhaps they bring a faint smile of derision to your face, as you
recall the pious phrases of Sunday School, or the
plush-embroidered text that hung over Grandmother's
bed. Perhaps they represent something dim that you think
you have outgrown as you have advanced into the
bright intellectualism of a scientific day. Perhaps they cover
you with a warm, safe feeling, perfumed with the scent of
red cushions and worn benches, and lit with the gentle
light that flows from the smile of a well-fed worshipper.
Perhaps they lead you into a comfortable corner of your soul,
well insulated from the chilly world of rational thought,
where you secretly indulge in spiritual drinking. If any of
these conditions is yours, then you have missed a treasure.
For to some these words are a key to a Kingdom, a
Kingdom where Truth reigns in so great majesty that we can
hardly bear the splendour, where life springs born again from
every moment of time, and where a rich joy compounded of
bitter spices scents every breath we breathe.
We are not sent into this world to walk it in
solitude. We are born to love, as we are born to breathe and eat
and drink. The babe is hardly separated from his mother's
womb before he stretches out a tiny clasping hand, and from
that time forth he will constantly stretch out to touch the
world that lies about him and the folk that dwell therein.
The purpose of our growth in life is to bring us into unity
with the universe into which we are born, to make us aware
that we are not lonely individual meteors hurtling blindly
through an abysmal dark, but living parts of a living whole. As
we grow we learn to love more and more: first ourselves;
then the family within the small kingdom of the home; then
the school, the wider circle of friends, the home
community, the college, and the still wider community of the
nation; and finally, the greatest country of all, which has
no boundaries this side of Hell, and perhaps not even there.
In some this process of enlargement is arrested at
an intermediate stage, and then love turns in upon itself
and becomes sour. Some have never truly loved anything
but themselves - perhaps `because their first outreachings
were received with coldness and lack of sympathy - and
then love quickly turns putrid, and becomes greed, and lust,
and turns even to self-disgust, Some confine their love to
the narrow limits of the family, and then too love decays
into sentimentality, or hardens into indifference. The couple
that are wrapped up in themselves soon find the
parcel uncomfortably tight; the mother who pours out her love
on her child till both are smothered in a cocoon of
sentiment soon tastes the bitter worm of ingratitude and ruins
the very object of her love. There are few more
depressing spectacles than the perennial "old grad, " who has
never broken the bonds of collegiate enthusiasm or
developed beyond the throaty lore of Alma Matriolatry. And the
present day provides us with the awful spectacle of what an
ingrown love of country can do, what fanatical hatreds and
cruelties it can engender, and how again it can destroy the very
object of its love.
There is no resting place for expanding love short
of God and his whole Kingdom. If our love ceases to expand,
it will perish, as a tree planted in a narrow pot must perish
if it does not break the vessel that confines it. But this is
the mystery of love: that as it grows to wider and wider
objects, the narrower loves are not made less, but are made
more perfect. The man who discovers the exquisite mutual love
of a united family life is not thereby made the less in
himself, for as he loves his family and gives himself for them, his
self is renewed and becomes more worthy of love. The
family which reaches out beyond itself in all manner of
community concerns does not thereby lose the love that flows within
its sacred circle; rather does it purify and intensify that
love. There is truth even in the hackneyed phrase "I could
not love thee dear, so much, loved I not honor more." And
though the world is slow to recognize it, the love of country is
not destroyed by the love of a greater Kingdom, but rather
is purified and strengthened thereby. Love indeed is a
widow's cruse for the more its fragrant oil is poured forth, the
fuller flows the stream. It is a realm where the laws of
economics do not hold, and are turned quite upside down, for what
we carefully mete out will wither in our hands, like the
manna of old, while what we squander recklessly abroad
will multiply till we can hardly contain our riches.
Let us not be ashamed of love. It is
unfortunate, perhaps, that for so great a thing we have to use a word
so smeared by mishandling. There is a melancholy
Gresham's Law of language by which bad meanings drive out the
good, and just as the good word "charity" became tainted with
the fetid odour of the poorhouse, so even "love" has come
to reek of stale emotion and cheap scent. But let us look
behind the words that bedevil us to that which "suffereth long,
and is kind; envieth not, vaunteth not itself, is not puffed
up, doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own,
is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; rejoiceth not in
iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; beareth all things, believeth
all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things - and
never faileth."
Let us not be afraid because love is an emotion.
There is a strange heresy abroad at the present time, that
things intellectual are good, and things emotional are bad. It is
a curious example of race prejudice in the spiritual
realm, and follows from the logical fallacy of all race prejudice
- that of generalizing from an inadequate sample.
Because some emotional experiences are shallow and unreal, we
too hastily condemn the whole gamut. In fact, there is
truth and falsehood in the realm of emotion just as there is
truth and falsehood in the realm of intellect. We do not
condemn mathematics because a schoolboy makes a mistake in
his algebra, nor should we condemn emotion because
a schoolgirl titters at the sight of a man. So in the
religious life we should not condemn the deep stirrings of the love
of God in the soul because of the riotous conduct of the
Holy Rollers. It is our duty to seek emotional truth, as it is
to seek intellectual truth, and indeed as we seek them we
shall find that they are not two truths, but one.
In our love also, we must seek that which is true,
and reject that which is false. There are grades and degrees
of love, as of all emotions: there is shoddy, sentimental
love and there is pure, ennobling love. The quality of love
depends not only on the quality of the lover; it depends on the
quality of the object of love. A worthy object will call forth a
worthy love, a trivial object a trivial love. The love of a mother
for her child is worthier than that of a spinster for her
cat precisely because its object is more worthy of love. And
the character of the lover depends in turn on the character
of the loved. If we waste our love on unworthy objects, or
devote to an object an inappropriate kind of love, we ourselves
are weakened. If we give to a cat the kind of love that should
be given to a child, we degenerate into mawkishness and
the cat is spoiled. If we love ourselves, our wealth, and
our position with the kind of love with which we should
love mankind, we will become hard without and fearful
within. Even if we love our family, our Society, and our
country with the kind of love with which we should love God, we
will become narrow, blind, and a danger even to the thing
we love.
It is of the utmost importance, therefore, that
our greatest love should be devoted to God, and that all
our other loves should be subordinated to our love for Him.
Only as we love Him with our whole heart, and mind, and
strength do we find all other objects of love taking their proper
place, and as we love Him we find too that our other loves take
on His quality, and shine with ever-brighter lustre. But
now perhaps I speak a language which some do not
understand. For how can we love God, whom we have not seen?
Our selves we know, our home we know, our country we
know and have seen - but who is this God who so
jealously commands our adoration? Indeed, the greatest obstacle
in the way of our love for God is the vague notions which
we entertain of Him. One has a certain sympathy for the
young man who said that every time he thought of God he
thought of an oblong blur, and that he thought of love as a
faint pink smell filling the air. Most of us fancy that we are
past the stage where we think of God as an old man with
whiskers sitting in the clouds. It is extremely unfashionable,
especially in university circles, to think of God in personal terms
at all. There is a long word of peculiar magical
properties. "Anthropomorphism," which haunts the intellectual in
his search for God. Consequently we wander off into all
manner of vague phrases and analogies: Spiritual Forces,
Wills, Powers, World-Souls, Hidden Dynamos and the like, in
a desperate attempt to avoid the simplest, most beautiful,
and most penetrating analogy of all; that of the Father who
is known through his children. Once we recognize that
all analogies, all words, all symbols express less than the
truth, once we acknowledge that God is greater than anything
that we know or can say, surely we need not be afraid to think
of Him as a person. For the way to God is through
mutual love, not through abstract metaphysic, and mutual love is
a relationship of persons.
Not more than one or two people in this whole
continent knew my father, who lived all his life in England. Yet
anyone who knows me knows something of what my father
was like, for I resemble him in many respects. So we may
look into our selves, and into the faces of our friends, and
find there evidence of a heavenly paternity, stained
and adulterated with the clay of this earth, but
nevertheless stamped with a heavenly form. We have a strange faculty
of recognition of that which is God-like. We know that we
are not pure, elemental beings, but are compounded, a
mixture of earth and heaven, of temporal and eternal, of mortal
and immortal.
"Mind that which is pure in you to guide you to
God" says George Fox, and good advice it is, for as we find
that within ourselves which is worthy of high love - the
clear thought, the generous impulse, the rush of unity that
binds us to the suffering of all creation - so indeed we are
guided to God.
But it is not enough to look merely within
ourselves. The God who is to be the object of our highest love
cannot be a fragmentary part, however deep, of our own
little personalities. "That which is pure within us" is not so
much God himself, as his family likeness printed in us. It
guides us to God, but we shall be deluded if we seek God only
in our own soul. A dear friend of mine who left the Society
of Friends to join the Roman Catholic Church, wrote that
in the book of Christianity the chapter on "God in the
Soul" would contain all that was meaningful to the
Quaker. Perhaps there are Friends who think that. If so, I
would urge them to think again, for such is not part of the
testimony of our Society. The God whom we love and worship is not
a figment of our personal imagination, but is the Father of
all creation. We seek Him, therefore, not only in ourselves,
but in His other children. In a large family some are more,
and some are less like the father, and so in the world of men
we see a better likeness of our other Father in some than
in others. There are some who live close to the Father,
and daily take on more of His likeness, while others
busy themselves with affairs of dust, and continually dilute
their heavenly part with dross. Let us then mind that which
is pure, not only in ourselves but in those greater than
us, and it will lead us to God.
Nor should we confine ourselves to our own times.
We who are alive at this moment are but a tiny part of the
great host of God's children, and indeed bear less of His
likeness than many who have gone before. In the records and
writing of the saints there is a great treasure of coins minted
fresh from the golden fires of the King's treasury. Read
Woolman, Fox, and Penington; go further afield and dwell with
Brother Lawrence and Saint Francis; go even to the poor in
spirit, the agnostics and wrestlers in vain, the Huxleys and
Arnolds, and see how they are all minted from the same die.
There are at least ten books written in the past three or
four hundred years which can hardly be read
without experiencing a vision of God. Go back further, to
Augustine and to Paul; read the Epistles as if they were
written yesterday - as in God's time they were - and see the
Lord wrestling with a day even more terrible than ours.
And then, when we have finished with the saints,
we find that they have one testimony, that brightly as the
light of God shines in their faces, there is one greater than
they: an elder brother, so like indeed to his father that they
can hardly be told apart. "There is one, even Christ Jesus,
that can speak to thy condition," came the Word to Fox;
"and when I heard it, my heart did leap for joy." We return,
after wandering in many a spiritual wilderness, to the
Gospels, and find there a Christ without who answers to the
Christ within, a spirit so full of life and power and truth that as
we walk with Him we come to know the Father of us all. As
we follow him in his ministry, in his teachings, parables,
and actions, so simple that a child can understand them, yet
so profound that the wisest philosopher often but confuses
their meaning, something in us goes out to something in him,
in a strange electric spark of recognition. Follow him
further, as he sets his face towards Jerusalem, and feel the
eternal weight of the Passion story, where each word moves
in majesty to the terrible doom, writ in time and yet out
of time. Follow him even to the foot of his cross where
the broken heart of God pours forth in water and blood,
and discover yourself strangely not only in Jerusalem, but
in falling Babylon, in burning Rome, in bombed London,
in starving France, in the reeking slums of the City of
Brotherly Love itself. Unveil the picture in your mind, if you dare
of the massed sin and suffering of the world, past,
present and future, this terrible ocean of tortured bodies
and tormented minds, of suffering innocence and
triumphant stupidity on which our middle-class ark floats so
insecurely. See the way of God rejected, the laws of God flouted,
the love of God perverted, the purpose of God thwarted.
Descend, if you dare, to that Hell where all faith is self-deceit, all
love is lust, all honor is trickery, all purpose is illusion,
where the black waters of universal chaos sweep
unhindered through the unhinged windows of the mind. Cry the
last despairing cry of the sinking soul: "My God, my God,
why hast thou forsaken me?" Say, with George Fox, that you
are "in a measure sensible of Christ's sufferings, and what
he went through." You can go no further than Christ has
gone. There is a bottom to all despair, and He has touched
it. Incredible miracle, that God is to be found where we
think Him to be most absent. "If I ascend up into heaven, thou
art there: if I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there."
It is the testimony, not only of the Gospels but of
all the saints, that after the horror of Good Friday comes
the incredible splendour of Easter Morn. After the ocean
of darkness and death, there comes indeed an infinite
ocean of light and love which flows over the ocean of
darkness. After the veil of the temple is rent and darkness has
covered the earth the stone is rolled away, the risen Christ
appears, the spirit of God descends as a flame of fire, the band
of scattered and disillusioned fishermen become the seed
of the living Church, the new body of Christ. Whatever
doubts the higher criticism may cast upon the details of the
gospel story, its historic and spiritual truth speaks to the
Christ within us, for Christ is risen not only in the Jerusalem
of Caesar's empire, but in the heart of everyone who comes
by suffering and love into fellowship with creation. These
days are teaching us what in the fat days of the past we
had forgotten - that creation comes not by wishing, not by
easy words or polite formulas, but by agonizing love and
blessed suffering. So a child is born, so a poem is written, so
the Kingdom of Heaven is founded, and by no other means.
To share in creation, this indeed is to be a child of God, for
as we love and suffer ourselves, so we share in the love
and suffering of God, and so we come to know Him and to
love Him.
Brother Lawrence gives us this extraordinary
account of his conversion: "That in the winter, seeing a tree
stripped of its leaves, and considering that within a little time
the leaves would be renewed, and after that the flowers
and fruit appear, he received a high view of the Providence
and Power of God which has never since been effaced from
his soul. That this view had set him perfectly loose from
the world, and had kindled in him such a love for God, that
he could not tell whether it had increased in above forty
years that he had lived since." If, with Brother Lawrence, we
could really see a tree, in all its intricate relationships with
the whole of creation, we should indeed see God, and be
inflamed with love for Him. For every created thing is stamped
in some measure with the image of its creator, were we
sensitive enough to perceive it, and from the winter and spring of
a tree, from the contemplation of its complex ancestry,
its birth, its nourishment, its death, and its descendants,
and from the love of its strength and beauty we might
indeed come to have a "high view" of God. But not many of us
are Brother Lawrences, not many of us are at once simple
and sensitive enough to see God's image in a living tree,
nor even in the living men and women that we see around
us. For our hard hearts and insensitive spirits God has given
a plainer manifestation of the quality of his love, that
those who cannot see Him in a living tree may perceive
Him hanging from a dead one.
The love of God exhibits many of the phases of
human love. In the beginning there is frequently an experience
of intense excitement, which may be repeated from time
to time, corresponding to that type of human love called
by the fleshly-minded psychologists, "cardiac-respiratory."
It is analogous to the first excitement of the young couple
in love, and may be accompanied by the same quickening
of the heart and breath. It comes upon us when we are in
the presence of a "high view of God," that commands all
our adoration and wonder. It is accompanied by a strange
sense of invasion, of mutuality, of the love of God for us going
out towards us as our love goes out towards Him. This sense
of mutuality is the secure evidence, for those who possess
it, that the God they love is indeed without as well as within,
a being whose existence depends on us in no way,
however much our existence depends on Him. The joy of such
an experience is too great to be borne for very long, so that
for most of us these experiences are rare, and some of
us perhaps hardly experience them at all. But this
peculiar exalted state is not of course the only, nor is it the
most important manifestation of the love of God. Just as the
love of man and wife is more constantly and perhaps more
truly expressed in the quiet devotion of everyday life than in
the ecstasies of courtship, so the love of God also is
expressed in a constant devotion and obedience, seated as much
in the will as in the emotions. There is the wine of God's
love, as expressed in the exalted experience. But there is also
the bread of His love, the daily bread without which we
could not live, the devotion and obedience which we give to
Him in the commonplace tasks of life. Brother Lawrence
again says "that our sanctification did not depend upon
changing our works, but in doing that for God's sake, which
commonly we do for our own." If therefore we are a sober,
businesslike, unemotional person, as little given to celestial visions
as Benjamin Franklin, let us not say that the practice of
the love of God is something which does not concern us.
We can still eat His bread, even if he withholds for a time
His wine. And let those who are otherwise inclined beware
a little of spiritual intoxication, and remember that the
surest remedy for the deadly sin of spiritual pride is to take
bread as well as wine in our spiritual sacrament.
Love, wherever it appears, is a living, growing
thing, and follows the laws of life rather than of machines. It
must therefore be nourished, or it will die. It is nourished
by attention to the object that inspires it, and it dies
by forgetfulness and neglect. Love feeds on the presence of
the loved one. We have all had the experience of losing a
friend by neglect. Someone, perhaps, who has been very dear
to us, removes to a distant place where we cannot visit
them. At first the friendship is kept up by correspondence,
but gradually other interests crowd in upon the attention,
letters become fewer, and finally cease, and the very thought
of our friend drops out of our life. So it is too often with
our love for God. In youth perhaps we are privileged to receive
a "high view of God" which commands our love and
service. But as the years go by the vision fades, the cares of
business and of social life crowd in upon us, we take up bridge
and golf, we come to move in a circle in which it is
unfashionable to be religious, our attendance at worship and our
practice of prayer become formal and spasmodic, and the bright
flame of our early devotion cools to a little brief ash of
occasional nostalgia. It is tragically easy to exchange the
eternal treasure for a stale mess of earthly pottage, for our
love cools by imperceptible degrees if it is not renewed.
The renewal, this constant new birth, is accomplished in
the way that all love is renewed: by contact with the object
of love. It is the principal task of the
discipline of the life of Godly love to keep us constantly aware of God's
presence, and His love-inspiring attributes, and of His great love
for us. It is a light and gracious discipline, but it requires
a certain conscious attention, particularly in its early
stages, before its observances have become habitual, and also
in its later stages, when habit may degenerate into
formality. It is bar each person to find for himself those
observances which are most helpful, but there are certain
broad experiences that we cannot afford to neglect. We must
allot some time for the conscious lifting-up of the soul to
God. Some find it necessary to allot a specific time each day,
for instance on retiring, or on rising. Some find it possible
to set their face Godward at all manner of odd moments -
in the street, in a moment of waiting, in the midst of
reading, conversation, or business, or even, like Brother
Lawrence, when washing dishes. There is a quiet, open place in
the depths of the mind, to which we can go many times in
the day and lift up our soul in praise, thankfulness
and conscious unity. With practise this God-ward turn of
the mind becomes an almost constant direction, underlying
all our other activities. As a compass swings towards the
north immediately after each disturbance, so we swing
towards the Pole that draws the life of our being the moment
a temporary distraction is removed.
Another essential part of the discipline of the nourishment of love is the refreshment to be obtained
from fellowship with the family of God, that is, with His
creation, both that which is here present with us, and that which
lies in the past. There is a renewal of the love of God to be
found in nature, in the unbelievable drama of beauty and
order that lies all about us, and as we consider the lilies of
the field and the sparrows of the city street we too can receive
a "high view of the Providence and Power of God." The
pure love of truth is but a colder version of the love of God,
and when the selfless pursuit of truth leads us to awe
and wonder, the most critical scientist may be led into
an experience which is essentially religious. But for those of
us who browse only on the foothills of natural knowledge,
the love of God is most clearly revealed in those who have
known Him best. It is as we hold converse with the Saints, both
the spoken word of the living and the written record of
the departed, that our love is renewed. This renewal of
love should be the great task of our Meeting for Worship; it
should be the central theme of all our ministry, and the prime
object of our devotional reading. We have perhaps relied too
much in our day on intercourse with the present only. We
read only the book of the month, we listen only to the speaker
of the hour, and we forget that we are but a small band
of newcomers to the great Family of God. It is a peculiar
disease of the modern mind to think that the present
supersedes the past, and we need to recapture a sense of unity with
the body of the past, without which we cannot grow. If we
confine our spiritual fellowship to this thin skin of things we
call the present, we are in grave danger of spiritual death.
The surface of a body is nourished from below, and if cut
off from the deeper layers it will die. So does our spiritual
life decay if it is cut off from the past. If we neglect the
records of those who have been close to God, and especially if
we neglect the greatest record of all, the Bible, we cannot
hope to maintain a full and conscious love of God.
If love is to grow, it must not only be nourished,
it must be expressed. Love that is one-sided is not
perfect, and to be complete, love must be mutual and must
find expression. If we never show our love to each other,
how can love grow into mutual unity? It is a poor marriage
in which a man never kisses his wife. Unless love is
expressed, it turns in on itself, and becomes cancerous. Unless we
allow our vision of God, and our love for God, to overflow in
all directions, into every corner of our life and activity, it
will harden into religiosity and hypocrisy. There is nothing
that brings religion more justly into disrepute than the
man whose religion feeds entirely on itself, who lives within
a world of abstract notions about God and His plan
of salvation.
"To be good only, is to be
A God, or else a Pharisee."
says Blake. And to be "religious" only, in the narrow
sense, to be shut up in a little world of purely personal
experience and belief, is to be a Pharisee.
But how can we express our love for God? We
express our love for earthly friends by doing things which will
give them satisfaction. But what can we do for God? Surely
there is nothing that we can do for Him, who is so far above
us. No word of ours can affect His majesty, no deed of ours
can shake His love. In primitive times men thought that
they could please God by making sacrifices and burnt
offerings. But the prophet soon discerns that God desires mercy,
and not sacrifice, and that the thousands of rams, the
ten thousands of rivers of oil, the costly churches, the
elaborate ritual, where they are devoid of justice and mercy, are
an insult to the integrity and righteousness of God
Himself. But we cannot show justice and mercy to God! He is
above our justice, and we are not in a position to show Him
mercy. We can only truly express our love for God, then,
in expressing our love for his family, for His creation. By
no direct act can we do anything for God, except as we
show our love towards those whom He loves. The love of
God, therefore, leads us directly into the love of our
neighbor, and even into the love of our enemies; for our neighbor
and our enemies are beloved of Him, and as we exclude
them from the circle of our concern, so we exclude Him
also. "Inasmuch as ye have done it unto the least of these,
my brethren, ye have done it unto me."
Indeed, the love of God is the only sure foundation
for the love of neighbor. Without the love of God the
command to love our neighbor is a monstrous sarcasm, the
imposition on mankind of impossible conflict between the moral
sense and the will. For even though we may agree,
intellectually, that the height of morality is to love our neighbor, how
can we do this if our neighbor is not lovable, and more, if
our neighbor is also our enemy? How can I love the
Germans, who with seeming wantonness have destroyed the
prim, spinsterish suburb in which I first grew, who have
unroofed the chapel in which I first learned the things of God,
and the meeting house in which I joined the Society of
Friends? How can we love those who out of the lust for power
have crushed under foot the tender plant of European liberty
and cooperation, and made of Europe a hell of hatred,
hunger, and bitterness that generations will hardly fill up? How
can we love the Japanese, who threaten to destroy the
balance of the world that forms our particular environment?
How can a German love the English and the Americans, who
are threatening to starve him for a second time into
submission, and who are exposing him to a defeat that will bring
revenge, desolation and chaos to his homeland?
There is only one answer to these questions: we
can only love our enemies, we can only truly forgive a wrong,
by the overflow of the love and forgiveness of God.
Forgiveness is more difficult than many of us realize, especially
those who have not had much to forgive. When someone does
us a desperate injury, or what is worse, when someone
does such an injury to something or to someone that we
love, forgiveness comes hard. We may recognize,
intellectually, that forgiveness is desirable, we may even try to
persuade ourself that we have forgiven, but underneath there will
be a hard lump on our hearts and a scar in our memory.
True forgiveness comes only in a flood of divine love, that
wells up in our souls from places too deep to be hurt by
mortal injury, love that draws us together with God and with
our enemy in a healing, uniting experience. Perhaps the
greatest fruit of the love of God for the individual soul is the
ability to be born again each moment, in a world newly
created and set free from the clinging bondage of the past
through love and forgiveness. In such a world there is no fear,
for fear is not innate, but is built on the experience of
past defeats unresolved and past injuries unforgiven. Perfect
love indeed drives out fear, because it breaks the cruel thread
of history, and sets us above the hideous determinism of
an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, a revenge for a
defeat. The love of God again makes us free, for it draws us to set
a low value on those things wherein we are subject to
others - our wealth, our position, our reputation, and our life
- and to set a high value on those things which no man
can take from us - our integrity, our righteousness, our love
for all men, and our communion with God.
The love of God expresses itself not only in
individual life, but in family life. A man and wife whose love for
each other is part of their love for God, discover a more
splendid love and a more exuberant life than those who love
each other only. The popular books and films of today teach
us that the most important question a man can ask about
the lady he wants to marry is, "Does she love me?' It would
be considered a most improper infringement of individual
rights to ask, "Does she love God?" But no marriage is secure if
it is based on purely self-contained affection. We
are discovering to our cost that the romantic molasses on
which our young people feed is a poor substitute for the
nourishing food of God's love.
Our relationship with our friends and neighbors
also can be trivial or fruitful, according to whether they are
based on the love of self or the love of God. That is not to say
that we must always go about with serious faces and black
Bibles. There is a large place in life for the pure occasion of
fellowship - the dance, the convivial company, the hike, the swim,
the game. There may even be a place for the bleak
complexities of the suburban bridge party, or the manufactured
elegance of a formal dinner. But if all our social relationships are
of this kind, how poor we are! If we never know our friends
"in that which is eternal," if our friendship is confined to
polite pleasantries and physical exercise, how bodiless it
is! Perhaps the greatest source of spiritual weakness of
our day is that we have not subjected our social relationships
to the discipline of God's Love. In reacting against the
formal "family prayers" and the black-visaged religion of a day
that feared God too much and loved Him too little, we have
cast aside many practices of great value to the perfecting of
our love. If our meetings for worship grow dry, and our
meetings for business contentious, is it not because we do not
visit each other in our homes, in the spirit of worship? If
we meet only for a brief time on Sunday, how can we truly
get to know and to love one another? Let a few concerned
people invite members of the Meeting to their homes, for a
simple meal, and a period of worship, and of reading together,
and of sharing the food of the spirit, and see how the life of
the meeting will spring up. Are any of us in a position where
it would embarrass us to bring up matters of religion in
our home among our guests? Have we relegated the love of
God to a part of our time, a part of our life? Have we tried to
shut God up in a Meeting House? If so, let us look to our life,
and that quickly, for the Lord is not to be fobbed off with
polite entertainment in the parlor; if any room in our house
is closed to Him he will not visit us for long. Let us see that
He is welcome everywhere, in our social relationships as
well as in Meeting. Let us "walk cheerfully over the
world, answering that of God in every man," and not rest
content until we have shared the deeper life and joy with all
our neighbors. Within our own Society let us revive the
noble practice of the "religious opportunity," and visit in the
homes of Friends in the conscious exercise of the love of God.
Let us each make our own home the Lord's house, where it
is easy and natural to find opportunities for worship
and spiritual fellowship. Let us make our table the Lord's
table, from which none of his children can be excluded by
reason of race, color, or social position. Then if we sit thrice
daily at His table, can we long endure to be served by those
who do not sit at meat with us, or to feed on elaborate dishes
in rich settings? For in His house we are all servants, and
at His table the food is good bread, not kickshaws and spices.
Not only do we often fail to bring the life of our
home under God's love, but - strange paradox - we fail to
bring the life of the Meeting, or of the Church into His
presence. An organization often comes to usurp the place of the
spirit which founded it. Men come to love their government
more than their country, to love their party more than
justice, and to love their church more than God. It is
temptingly easy to love the Society of Friends more than we love God
- its noble history, its endearing charm, its
ancient observances, its manifold activities claim our attention
and affection until we almost forget the object of the
whole structure. I have heard it said of Friends that they talk
too much in Meeting about "Quakerism." We are given to
self-observation, we twirl ourselves around in our fingers
with sincere self-satisfaction, we bask in the world's praise,
and we lose the sight of God's face because we are absorbed
in our own benevolent contours. But if we do this, we are
lost; our meetings lose their freshness, our spirit loses its
spring, we lose even our love for one another, and unless
we rediscover the love of God itself whose expression is
the reason and purpose of our Society, the very Society that
we cherish dwindles into nothingness. There are no more
tragic instances of the neglect of the love of God than are to
be found in religious conflicts and separations. That the
name of the loving Savior should be the occasion for so
much strife and bitterness through history is a mystery of
suffering almost as great as that of the cross itself. Yet why
have these things happened? It is because we have not loved
God enough, and not loved Christ enough, and not loved
each other enough. How can the broken body of Christ on
earth be healed, if not by love? Will not notions of God, and
notions of Christ, and theories, and theologies, necessary as
they are, lead us into contention, and bitterness, if we have
not much love? And can we not draw our sundered parts
together in a common love for God, for Jesus, and for one another?
If our lives, our homes, and our churches but imperfectly express the love of God, what can we say of
our country, or of our civilization? With its greed, its cruelty,
its hatreds, its wars, its poverty, its injustices, and above
all, its shallowness of life and its vulgarity, it seems almost
to be given over to the pursuit of evil and of
self-destruction rather than to the love of a loving God. Yet I am not
ashamed to say that I love America, its great spaces and free air,
the more perhaps because I am not a "birthright" but
a "convinced" American. Nor am I ashamed to say that I
love my mother, England, for though she is sometimes blind
and boastful, she has suffered much, and has green fields
and gray towers. Even do I love this whole rantipole
civilization of ours, with its street cars and automobiles, movies
and machines, its noise and shouting and bright lights,
its science and sanitation, its impertinent questioning
and swaggering progress, that straddles the earth
from Samarkand to Patagonia, and winks a daring 200-inch
eye at the farthest galaxies. Because I love these things, I
long for their redemption, for they are not yet redeemed,
they may never be redeemed, and yet they can be perfected
in the love of God. The love of God does not destroy, but
purifies and liberates our love of country. The love of country
without the love of God is a destructive emotion; it leads
into selfishness, pride, arrogance, injustice, cruelty,
domination and war. Wars are not fought primarily for economic
reasons, for the web of economic conflicts coincides hardly
anywhere with the pattern of national boundaries. Most men go
to war because they love their country more than they
love God, or because the God they love is a national God,
speaking the national tongue, thinking in national ways, hating
the national hates. But when we love the universal
suffering Father before all else, our love of country becomes pure.
We wish to see her a Christ among nations, not conquering
by guns and bombs and starvation, but by love and
suffering. We do not wish her to be respected out of fear for the
harm her vast fleets of ships and planes can do to her
enemies; rather do we wish her to be respected for her integrity
and unselfishness, for the greatness of her life, not for the
range of her guns. He who loves his country in the light of his
love for God, expresses that love by endeavoring to make
his country respected rather than feared, loved rather
than hated. But he who loves his country only, expresses
that love by trying to make his country feared, and succeeds
too often in making it hated. We see clearly that German
bombs, German soldiers, German tanks, German rule and
German victories make Germany hated - indeed, it is because
her people have loved her so passionately that she has
become the most hated nation on earth. But it is equally true
that American bombs, American soldiers, American
tanks, American rule and American victories make America
hated. For this reason the man who admits the Love of God
to every corner of his soul cannot participate in war, for
he must seek to express his love for his country in ways
that will make his country loved. To love God truly is indeed
to live in "that life and power that takes away the occasion
of all wars," for it cannot possibly be an expression of His
love to kill, maim, and burn His other children, no less
beloved than we.
Apart from the love of God there is no end to the
cycle of war. For war will not cease until governments
everywhere, and the people who make them, sense a unity with all
men and recognize a responsibility for the good of all men,
whether they are fellow-countrymen or so-called "aliens." But
this will not come until there is forgiveness; until the Jew,
the Pole and the Norwegian forgive the German, and the
German forgives the Englishman; until the Japanese forgive the
white races, and America's slogan becomes not "remember
Pearl Harbor," but "forgive Pearl Harbor." But how can there
be forgiveness of such great wrongs? How can the Pole
forgive the German his atrocities, the Japanese forgive the
Exclusion Act, the Americans forgive the blows at their pride
and prestige? By human power it is impossible. Let us have
no illusions about this war, or the peace to follow. It will not
be a just peace: it will be a revengeful peace; it will lay
the seeds of another war. There are some wrongs that
cannot be forgiven, save by a powerful upsurge of the Love of
God, and Germany has committed them all. But there can be
no peace, and no security, without forgiveness, without a
new birth, a new start, a wiping of the slate. And this will
never come as long as men love anything - self, family,
culture, religion, civilization - more than they love God.
In our economic and social life, in the sphere of
race and class also we have reached a point where
conflict threatens to become acute. Many of the problems of
economic life are technical rather than spiritual, and will be solved
in the due course of the progress of truth. But behind
the technical economic problems of our day there lies a
true disease of the spirit, the same disease that rots our
political system. It is the lack of responsibility, a lack of that
extension of self-interest that brings all men into its sphere. We
have wars because nations approach all questions asking
"how will this affect us," not "how will this affect the world."
We have economic strife and discontent because business
men and trade unionists and professional workers alike
approach all questions asking "how will this affect us," and not
"how will this affect everybody." So we have no compunction
in pressing for a tariff that will ruin half a million lives
across the seas, nor in raising our own wages at the expense
of unorganized workers, nor in squeezing a competitor out
of business to add a fraction to our own power and
wealth. Whatever economic system we adopt, whether a free
economy or a planned economy, its spiritual foundation must be
a certain sense of unity with all men, a code of honor,
a willingness to forgive and to forget the past, and to
build our actions on hope for the future. This is of
increasing importance as our system crystallizes into organized
groups, for let nobody think that organization, or
socialization, lessens conflict. The less we act as individuals, the more
we are organized into interest-groups, the more acute
economic conflicts become, and the more necessary it is to have
a principle within society by which conflicts can be
resolved fruitfully. This principle is that men should wish to act
in the general welfare, and not in their particular interest.
But apart from the love of God, this principle is a mere
moral platitude, incapable of execution, and we shall never
stir the mass of men to observe it unless we first fire them
with the love of God.
Let us then not be ashamed of the love of God.
Too long have we hidden our light under the bushel
of unobtrusive good works. We have made of our religion
a holy relic, to be kept in a discreet plain box, brought
out perhaps to be dusted on Sunday morning, but never to
be exhibited to the unfriendly gaze and polite laughter of
the world. But relics decay, and soon our box will be
empty, and then perhaps we shall mourn our loss, and say
"Religion is dead." And all the while God will be smiling sorrowfully
at us, and His love will spring up again as a flower comes
up in the spring, fresh and sweet-smelling. It will spring up
in strange places where we never thought of looking,
among the poor and the outcast, the uneducated and the
foolish, the wayward and the heathen. And if we are awake
and sensitive it will spring up, alive and gay, out of the dust
of our own hearts, through the matted growth of our
intellectual pride and worldly riches.
I have a vision for the world. I see a band of men
and women going out unto all people, preaching this
splendid news of God's love by word and deed, using all the
resources of their minds, and of the knowledge of our day, but
speaking principally to the spiritual hunger that grips the hearts
of men everywhere. I see them preaching fearlessly -
"Love God more than your country, more than your class,
more than your race, more than your creed." I see
them persecuted, and cast into prison, and put to death,
but conquering all these things through the love that fills
their whole being, leaving no room for mistrust, or fear, or
pain. They shall absorb the world's hate and anger into their
own bodies, and will give none in return, so that the streams
of hatred that fly around the world, bounding and
rebounding from the flinty surfaces of unredeemed souls, will
dwindle and pass away. I see the hardness melting from men's
souls, a new and eager look brightening in their eyes, a
dissolving of old hates, a coming together in joyful unity.
Let us not despair of the world. It is God's world,
and He has made it for Himself, as He has made us. Is our
life threatened? It is not ours to withhold from Him. Is our
peace, our comfort, our security threatened? These things
have come between us and His glory, and we shall find the
true peace, the true comfort, the true security that lies in
His riches, not in ours. Are we threatened with prison,
with concentration camps, with the loss of our jobs,
the withdrawal of the esteem of our fellows? If so, we shall be
in a goodly company; we shall sing with Paul and Silas,
and enter prisons as palaces with William Dewsbury. Is
our country going to be defeated, our civilization going
to collapse? Out of the utter defeat of Israel came the
sweetest psalms and the noblest prophets; out of the collapse of
Rome came Augustine and the City of God; after the fire and
fury of the Thirty Years War came the divine cadences of
Bach. After a disastrous war in Denmark came Bishop
Grundtvig, the Folk High Schools, the cooperatives, and the
agriculture that is the model of the world. God is always redeeming
His world, in ways that we often do not recognize, and out
of the very depth of the misery of our time there will come
a reawakening of His love in the hearts of millions of
His prodigal children, a new springtime to the weary earth.
Let us press forward to that time; let us do more, let us
anticipate it in our own lives, secure even in the midst of
destruction, secure in the persuasion that whatever may happen to
us, "neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities,
nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor
height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to
separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."